• Someone’s been stealing my basil. Out of my front garden. I feel
    like putting up a sign with a lot of curse words. Or a tiny
    electric fence. It makes me sad every time I look at it. I was
    so proud of my basil. I think I’m going to take some out of the
    garden and put it in a pot on the porch. Where it will die. For
    I cannot grow things on the porch. They die on the porch. Hmmm.

    Last week I went to two fancy restaurants for dinner. One was on
    the 41st floor of the Marriott. It had the most fantastic view
    of the French Quarter and the Point. I have to take George there
    for brunch one Sunday. It’s just too beautiful not to.

    The other fancy restaurant was the Palace Cafe. Mmmm. I had
    crabmeat cheesecake as an appetizer. Need I say more? (Also, I
    needn’t say more about how bad my weigh in is going to be
    tomorrow. I haven’t tracked points since last Wednesday. I
    hardly saw the point after the dinners out. Also I was v. busy.)

    Tonight I’m going to hopefully pick out my invitation design for
    the wedding. It’s going to be very exciting. These are not your
    run-of-the-mill invitations. We’re talking dreamy here, people!

    Thursday George and I are going to a benefit for a redevelopment
    group that a friend of ours works for. We got free tickets. That
    makes me feel special. There’s going to be yummy food. I must go
    to the gym beforehand.

    On a week from Friday, Kristina’s coming to visit. Also my
    sister and her husband. And Ren and her family. It’s going to be
    a very fun weekend. On the following Monday morning, I leave for
    Raleigh until the following Saturday morning. Where am I going
    to weigh in? I have a feeling my scale is v. special (um, makes
    me weigh a few pounds less than other scales) so I am reluctant
    to use a different one. There is a YMCA right near the hotel. I
    hope I am brave enough to use it. (The hotel gives out free
    passes.) Otherwise I am going to gain a hundred pounds and my
    guns are going to turn back into ordinary flabby arms. Poo.

  • My, what a lovely sign you have!

    Yeah, so my friend Angela opened her cafe this week! I’ve already eaten there twice, it’s very exciting. (It’s take out only, so to be accurate, I should say I’ve eaten food from there twice.)

    The end of this week at work was incredibly busy, working with some people from out of town on a conference that we’re hosting next year. It’s exciting, though, to have something different to do that involves a lot of responsibility. Who knows, maybe I will find my calling in meeting planning. Yeah, right.

    Yesterday was George’s birthday. We went to the pub. Of course.

  • This is the best:

    However, we notice that you’ve lost more than an average of 2 pounds per week over three or more weeks. This rate is too rapid — it may be unsafe or unhealthy.

    While we’re proud of your achievements and pleased you’re making changes in your life, we need you to concentrate on one more thing: You should slow the pace of your weight loss to no more than 2 pounds per week. Click here to read more about the effects of rapid weight loss.

    I love it when Weight Watchers yells at me for losing too much weight in one week!

  • I find it easier to write little blurbs than whole paragraphs,
    especially on a Monday morning.

    Me and mom.

    Spent the weekend with my mom. Can I tell you how much I love my mom? A lot. We had fun this weekend. Went to the mall and she bought me my dream mascara! Definicils by Lancome. I’m pretty sure I wrote about it before. It is truly magical mascara.

    Saturday night we watched “The Notebook”. Dear God, what an emotionally manipulative film. (i.e., I cried but was not happy about it.)

    On Sunday we went to brunch. Mom, Mauro, and I. I “paid”. (i.e., my mom slipped me her credit card beforehand. How much do I hate myself for that? A lot. So don’t even try to make me feel worse.) After that, we went and saw Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy. They didn’t like it that much. (I’m not saying I liked it enough to see twice, but there wasn’t much else playing.)

    After the movie, I went home. On the way home I stopped at Macy’s. Found some earrings for the wedding. I am currently on an earring quest. I find it best to focus on small details like earrings this far out. Keeps me occupied.

    Oh yeah, how could I forget the best find I had on the trip? GIANT SMARTIES! Holy cow, I thought I was going to be overcome with joy and faint when I saw them. I’m telling you, it really doesn’t get any better than that.

    George and I have been taking care of Polly and Colin’s dog while they’re out of town. It’s good for George and me. Now George doesn’t want a dog. Thank goodness. Not that their dog isn’t the sweetest dog ever – he totally is. But we’re far too lazy for a dog.

    Of course we watched the new Dr. Who last night. It wasn’t scary.

  • Nothing much to say. But the weather here is beautiful.

    Saw Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy on Wednesday. That was
    highly entertaining.

    Last night we had dinner with our neighbors on their new deck.
    They have an adorable 18 month old son. He giggles and runs
    around and says “dah” when he sees a dog.

    At the gym, they upped my weights. I can barely stand it. My
    arms guns are going to be so buff by the wedding, if only
    I could get rid of the layer of flab on top of the muscle. Dang.

    I got some earrings yesterday that I ordered off eBay. Mail is
    always exciting.

    I’m going to Baton Rouge tomorrow to spend Mother’s Day with my
    mom. I haven’t been to Baton Rouge in aaaages. I wish I had
    brought my dress to her house, so I could wear it all weekend.
    Alas. It is clearly better that I did not.

    I have been very good this week with WW. I’ve been writing down
    every little thing, including the sour lifesavers and jolly
    ranchers. (Who knew, Jolly Ranchers have 23 calories EACH? What
    a caloric rip-off. I need to get some sugar-free ones.)

    In three weeks, Kristina is coming to visit. We have already
    started on our food grid, I fear that will not be a low-point
    weekend. But that’s okay. The day she leaves to go home, I will
    leave to go to Raleigh for five days. Thank goodness the hotel
    gives you free passes to the YMCA so I can still work out.

    There, I wrote stuff.

  • Okay. It’s time for some brutal honesty. No more messing around. This is serious business, time to recommit. And all I can say is Thank God Kristina rejoined Weight Watchers.

    I’m not saying she needs it or anything, but there is no one who can keep me on track better than Kristina. She is the only person I believe when she tells me I must write down everything. And I do mean everything. She even writes down chewing gum.

    So in honor of Kristina, I measured the milk in my cereal this morning instead of just slopping it in the bowl. And I’m going to be honest when I have a sour lifesaver at work. Or five.

    On a lighter note, we got my wedding band yesterday and it is beautiful! After letting me stare at it for a few hours last night, George put it away, and I won’t see it for another six months. So sad. It’s very beautiful. Delicate. Like myself. Ha ha! Joke.

  • So yesterday at work, the weirdest thing happened, but it’s hard
    to explain. Basically, a woman called my office looking for
    George’s dad. Just by freak coincidence, did his future
    daughter-in-law answer the phone.

    See, my George wrote an article for my department’s newsletter
    and this woman Googled his name and came up with my George’s
    name, and called my office to ask if I knew who he was. Knew who
    he was? He’s my fiance! Then I found out she was actually
    looking for George II, not George III. For a college reunion.

    I mean, it not a total coincidence, I guess, since my George got
    me this job. But it was still a very weird phone call.

    The exciting thing that happened was that my kind, lovely, dear,
    and generous fiance actually told me that we’re going to buy the
    wedding band of my dreams from the antique store in the French
    Quarter where I found it. (If it hasn’t been sold in the past
    week and a half.) So keep your fingers crossed!

  • Haven’t written in a while, eh?

    Let me think, what to write about, what to write about……

    Gosh, nothing really exciting springs to mind. I’ve been waiting
    patiently (or so I think) for the engagement pictures we took
    last weekend that were supposed to be ready for us to see them
    after a few days. Now it’s been over a week. I am not a patient
    person! I really like our photographer, but this is irritating
    nevertheless. In a way, I don’t want to see them (they’re going
    to be so dorky I’ll just get depressed seeing them) but on the
    other hand, they should be pretty funny.

    On Saturday, Regan and I went and looked at wedding bands again.
    That was fun, but since George doesn’t really want to talk about
    it, I can’t show him what I like. Nice.

    Boy, this is just depressing me. I shouldn’t be writing anything
    at all.

    Yesterday I put more plants in my garden. That was nice. My
    standards are low now. My hydrangea perked up. I’m pleased with
    that too. I repotted a plant I got as a housewarming present
    (that’s still alive!) but we’ll see how it reacts to its new
    home. I don’t hold out much hope. This coming from a person who
    killed a cactus. Sigh.

    At least I have exciting things to look forward to. Next weekend
    is Mother’s Day, so I’ll go to Baton Rouge to see my mom and
    maybe Teresa, if I’m lucky. That would be nice. And then the
    weekend after that is George’s birthday. And then the weekend
    after that, we’re painting the porch and we have our marriage
    preparation thingy. (Okay, I acknowledge that the preceding
    events aren’t that exciting. And my sister-in-law is due.

    And the weekend after that is when Kristina is coming in
    town. And my sister and brother in law will be here. And Ren’s
    family will be here for little Alison’s christening. And then on
    that Monday, I leave for Raleigh for a week.

    So yeah. Let’s hope this week goes by fast. I’m bored.

  • So yeah, that plateau that I had supposedly found the edge off, and jumped off? Yeah. Climbed right back on that one. (Hey, if you’re going to use the word “plateau”, you have to continue with the mountainous-terrain metaphor.)

    Anyway, I’m not very pleased, and my goal of, well, reaching my goal by August is feeling more and more out of reach. So I have to recommit. I have been going to the gym, but maybe not every single day like I was in the beginning. Well, this week there’s a contest where if you go every weekday, you get a $5 off coupon off a service. Piddling, maybe, but my goal is to get that coupon and use it towards a massage.

    I must reach my goal by August! Yes, it will be difficult, but with summer coming up, maybe I will be more inspired. I just need to find someplace to go swimming so I’ll have to get a bathing suit so I’ll be really inspired. Nothing is more inspiring than buying a bathing suit.

  • Last night, for our third anniversary, we went to Jacque-Imo’s for dinner. My very favorite restaurant. Oh, so so so good.

    Let’s recap: First up, the corn muffins. Holy cow. Then the appetizer was fried grits (in a cake form) with some kind of yummy mushroom sauce and some kind of meat. It was dark. Who knows, it was v tasty. Then the yummy spinach salad with a fried oyster on top (and I got George’s since he hates oysters.) For an entree, George had their famous fried chicken and I had an eggplant pirogue (only in south Louisiana…do they have eggplant canoes in other parts of the country?) with seafood and some yummy (and v fattening) cream sauce. And finally, creme brulee for dessert.

    It’s a good thing points don’t count on special occasions. (Yeah, I say that now, and then when I gain for the THIRD WEEK IN A ROW tomorrow, we can revisit that notion.)

  • what was I doing? Probably not getting any work done. Was too nervous. Thinking about what I was going to wear. Wondering what we were going to do. Wondering if I’d like this boy. Wondering if he’d like me.

    I guess he did.

    And because of that date I went on three years ago, this weekend I had plenty of wedding stuff to do. Went to see my dress and to pick out a dress for my junior bridesmaid. (My highly intelligent and spunky ten year old cousin Madeline.) Took engagement pictures on Sunday. Browsed wedding bands with Regan that afternoon. (Found one I want v badly. Hope George agrees. If not, it’s okay. Of course it’s just symbolic. Can I help it if I want my symbol to be an antique openwork flower-and-vine diamond studded band? Really it’s not as expensive as it sounds.)

    Am excited about my date tonight. Dinner but I don’t know where.

  • Why am I writing when I have nothing to say? Honestly, there’s nothing very interesting going on right now. Tonight I’m babysitting my cousin Max. Tomorrow I’m going to Covington and hopefully am going to have tea with my two friends. (Haven’t heard about reservations yet.) Okay, okay, I um suppose we might um go and um see my um dress again. Okay, okay, that might be the real reason we’re going. Alright. But one of the girls I’m going with is getting married next year and she hasn’t tried on dresses yet! But again, another excuse. Also I could order my shoes. Okay, I’m obsessed with my dress. It’s insane. Also the most expensive item of clothing I’m ever likely to own, so I think the more I put it on, the better. Lower cost-per-wear? Maybe?

    After that I’m going to meet my cousin Karye and her little girl Madelyn (whose name I am probably spelling wrong but I can’t seem to remember how to spell it) at a different bridal store so Madelyn can try on junior bridesmaid dresses. I’m excited about that because I haven’t seen her since Jenny’s wedding and she is really the funniest little girl ever. Very smart.

    Sunday, I’m embarrassed to say, George and I are taking engagement pictures. I can’t even think about it without blushing, so more than likely I’ll have red cheeks in all of the pictures. Ah well. Save on makeup.